I’m Trying to Retire the Word “Someday”

I am trying to retire the word someday, Sandy Vecchi

I’ve been thinking about the word someday a lot lately. I’m giving a keynote talk soon, on legacy—about how we live now, not just what we leave behind. It’s written. I’ve been rehearsing it over and over. And somewhere in all that repeating, I realized I needed to listen to my own speech. It’s a […]

Living After Losing Someone

Sandy Vecchi husband and his brother on a pheasant hunting trip

A little over a week ago, my husband lost his older brother. It wasn’t completely unexpected. He’d been fighting lung cancer for quite some time. We knew this day would eventually come. But knowing it’s coming doesn’t prepare you for when it actually arrives. Watching my husband grieve has reminded me that some losses are […]